Is My Man Cheating?

Is my man cheating? If you've been around the dating/relationship scene at all, you surely know a few girlfriends that have been cheated on. It may have even happened to you. It is one of the most traumatic, hurtful things that can happen to anyone … someone you are involved with and have trust in, completely disregards your relationship and feelings and is intimate with another.

That's what this site is about.

• It's all about looking for signs that will answer your question, "Is My Man Cheating".
• It's about how you can catch him cheating so you can finally answer the question once and for all and then have enough accurate information to use to make a good decision.
• It's about what you should be doing if you do catch him cheating … meaning, should you stay and make up or should you throw the bast**d out and move on with your life.
• It's about becoming the best you that you can be so that you'll always be coming from a position of strength in your relationships.  You want to be treated as an equal … not someone that has to rely on another for financial or emotional support.

So let's get right down to it.   When a woman asks herself … "is my man cheating", she probably really already knows the answer.  Here's a list of some common behaviors that may indicate that your boyfriend or spouse is cheating.  In general it boils down to … is your man changing his habits and/or becoming more secretive than usual.

Top 10 Signs That Your Man May be Cheating:

• Is he changing his physical appearance?  If you find that he's interested in losing weight, better hygiene, dressing nicer than he has in the past … there may be a reason for it.
• Does he treat you differently?  Has the way he treats you changed recently?  Is he unusually nice to you or mean and angry at you for no apparent reason?  Does he seem distant or always busy when you're around him at home?
• Is he secretive about his computer use?  Is he secretive about what he does online or does he hover over you when you're online?  If he has new private email accounts or changes passwords that have never been important before he might be hiding something.
• Does he have "unusual" cell phone usage habits?  Does he want his cell phone or pager in his possession at all times and not in yours?  Does he get angry when you ask who called or does he put his phone on vibrate when you're around so you can't hear it ring?  If his phone never works when you're calling him or if you see repeated calls to and/or from a strange number you might be in for a surprise.
• Are you suspicious of his telephone behavior? If his calls need to be in private now when they've always been public in the past you may have a problem.  Whispering on the phone, hurrying to get every phone call before you can get it, ending phone calls when you enter the room or getting his own personal cell phone are danger signs.
• How does he act around other women?  Does he seem more flirtatious than usual or is he a little too "hands on" with other women.  If he seems very familiar with another woman or does things for her (like pulling her chair out) that he doesn't do for you then beware.
• Have you seen incriminating evidence?  Sometimes he'll just be stupid and slip up.  Phone numbers or pictures of other women are dead give aways.  Lipstick, bite marks, scratches, hickeys and strange women's clothing in your home are obvious signs of infidelity.
• Has Your Sex Life Changed?   Does your sex life just seem "different" somehow?  Does he want more or less than usual?  If he seems focused on improving his "technique" or if he just seems to want to get it over with you may be living with a cheater.  If you get an STD from him … enough said.
• How about his work habits?  If he's not at work when he says he'll be there or if he leaves earlier than normal or comes home later than usual you may have a problem.  How about is work friends… do they treat you differently?  If he's unavailable at work when you call now, but he's always been available in the past he may be hiding something.
• Do your finances seem "out of whack"?  You may see new credit card bills or charges on credit cards for women's things that you never see.  He could also hide bills to keep you from seeing the actual charges.

Please keep in mind that you shouldn't "convict" your significant other based only on the above clues.  These are common indicators that he might be cheating, but you really need to get more information before you make any drastic decisions.